Sex: who takes, who is taken?

Sex: who takes, who is taken?
One often says that the man “takes” the woman, in a sexual relationship. A myth which conveys a whole sum of beliefs, even of prejudices on the roles of the man and the woman in the sex. However, with good to look at there, it is the reverse who does!

It is rather the woman who takes the man…

However, in the concrete love affair, in a true sex act with penetration, it would be rather the reverse. It is the sex of the woman who takes that of her partner, who accommodates it.
The vagina is not besides an inert body, cave or sleeve which would receive in a passive way the male sex. Quite to the contrary, it is about a very active body, a body of gripping. The vagina is able to move, to enclose the penis, to adapt to its form, its size to find its contact over all its length.

Note that sometimes, the vagina can refuse to take the sex of the man. It contracts, is tightened so much that the penetration appears impossible. One speaks then about vaginism. It is well the proof that the vagina is not at all an inert opening, but an alive body.

When all occurs well, if the vagina can be tightened, or widen, it is thanks to the action of the muscles which surround it. It can move, to mass interior. One even says that a woman who involves herself can embrace with her vagina, i.e. to reproduce the movements of the kiss.
The sexologists call sometimes this practice “the interior caress”. It is very pleasant for the two partners. They then do not need to impel with their whole body a back and forth pass, but to only benefit from the feelings generated by this interior caress. It is at the same time soft and deep and for the woman at whom her place increases the intensity of the pleasure like the speed of which has occurred of the orgasm. And it gets for the man a soft stimulation very favourable with a durable control of its ejaculation.

Thus, when a man agrees the idea to let himself take and to remain a little more passive, the two partners multiply by ten their pleasure. It is what one can wish with all the couples which like!